Both sides may feel shy, the woman in particular. Considerate and caring man to the woman, the woman should take the initiative to cooperate. First sexual intercourse, first encounter is the pain ruptured hymen ruptured and caused a small amount of bleeding, so both men and women should be with the good, the man should gently, step by step to stimulate the woman's sexual desire, but after sexual intercourse, intercourse action to slow , gentle, not once, you can try more than once.

If the man simply their own regardless of the woman, rough sex, will not only bring the woman on the physical pain, but also bring unhappiness to the spirit, so the woman's aversion to sex. The woman should take the initiative to cooperate, to overcome fear and anxiety, the man happily with the transfer, the more excited the more sex, the more vaginal secretions, smooth action, the better; the more calm mind, relaxation is also possible, so that not only reach sexual satisfaction, but also can reduce pain during sexual intercourse. Further, at the time of rupture, the woman's legs apart upward buckling, Hold the thigh, while downwardly spurts, to relieve pain.

Sensitivity to pain ruptured hymen, vary, some are very sensitive, some are not sensitive to pain than the drama, it is best to stop after a few days of sexual intercourse. Hymen rupture, edge cracks redness, and small black coagulation, usually after 2 to 3 days after the absorption gradually subsided, if experience this, preferably after the first sexual intercourse and then every 2-3 days, to prevent wound infection. If a lot of bleeding ruptured hymen, should emergency medical treatment, to avoid accidents, not afraid of people laugh and delayed treatment. First sexual intercourse, the man can also be due to a lack of knowledge or over-excited, premature ejaculation or sexual intercourse fails, this phenomenon does not have to worry, as the growth of knowledge and experience of marriage, the two sides coordination and cooperation, the problem will be gradually resolved of.

How the couple understand each other hints

Studies have shown that when two people face to face contact, 70% of the information is transmitted through nonverbal channels, which in sexual life has been particularly evident, especially women. Due to the nature of a woman in there warmth, delicate, and that so many men attracted to shyness, so that they show a subtle sex life, hazy beauty. For the passion, never to speak out, but the metaphor out by some action expression. If the husband wife are not good at capturing the passion of the heart from the many subtle signs of clues, or ignorant of this, it will destroy the beauty of both the sex, sexual disharmony planted a hidden danger. This requires us, in married life, we must learn to accept sexually suggestive from the other side - the exchange of linguistic gestures.

Sex life of non-verbal communication, can make life more imaginative, appealing, gives a subtle beauty. Non-verbal communication is a silent transmission of information, it is to express their feelings and desires by means of touch, smell, sight and hearing as well as body movements, gestures and so on.