They found that men derailed how to deal with? Many female friends have encountered such a problem, in the end how to do it? Let's take a look at it.

Guangdong Ms. Lee asked: We've been married for six years, and recently her husband often home late. Once, I happened to read the text messages on his cell phone, he found that even derailed. I love this home, her husband has been very good to me, the face of this situation, how can I do?

Shanghai happiness marriage counseling senior counselors A: Some people say "500 years of practice, I can return the couple's edge." Visible, marriage is precious. But in real life, some people can not stop the temptation of the outside world, there have been derailments. If a partner suddenly busy, not get home from work, the phone their hands, could be a harbinger of an extramarital affair.

After the discovery partner was having an affair, if properly handled, can be avoided marriage. At this time, we must first honestly express their own ideas, timely communication with your partner. For example you can ask him the manner of concern: "The recent home late, is there any problem?" And then gradually to speak his mind and stand. Second, do not deliberately view the partner's phone records, text messages. This will force the other to clear the record, hidden whereabouts, will make things worse. Finally, to maintain their normal life, to work, to avoid cranky when we are alone.

Part of the couple after open communication, can come together again. Repair premise of marriage, must affair has completely finished, one of the derailment should sincerely apologize. In addition, both sides should reflect on the problems in the marriage, once forgiven, you do not take the last thing again on the mouth.