Why men love shame our partner? The normal sex life can make you better enjoy the pleasure of sex, but also to the family harmony, between husband and wife is more harmonious life. However, many men due to some abnormal stimulation, always love for some sexual partners. So, what is the main cause of sexual abuse? Let's see together.

1, the beginning of the sexual instinct

In the lower animal population, mating often show a variety of sadism and masochism in mating behavior, like a rooster hen crown like bite. But this kind of abuse behavior will lower animal bring greater, faster, better sexual satisfaction. This tendency is the original sexual sadism instinct, so humans have embodied.

2, the development of relatively late

The psychological doctor said, a lot of sadistic behavior are early childhood experiences, when children long teeth and nails, began to bite, tearing and sadistic behavior, such abuse in childhood unmet and stagnant development, until adulthood to vent.

3, the desire and needs a sense of control

In the process of sexual abuse, victims and abusers for different needs. The abuser to see each other for a doll, can let its mercy, meet the object of desire for control. While the masochist have a strong sense of need, under each other's sadistic behavior so he enjoyed in his a happy abuser.

4, feelings of frustration

There are a lot of people in love, feelings of failure. Or in marriage, treat life lack of enthusiasm and interest, and even a kind of boredom and fear of attitude, and this psychological often touches own heart, lead astray into sexual abuse.

Experts remind that we should develop a healthy, scientific and harmonious sex life.