Sexual activity is an important activity of the human species to thrive. Good understanding of basic stable relationship is the life of husband and wife.

Most of the women for their first sexual intercourse will be some fear and hesitation, and full of doubt: first, I will happiness within? Will it hurt? I will make my man satisfied? He is my Mr. Right, the first time I really pay for him......

These are the majority of women will be considered in the first sexual intercourse before the problem. In reality, the first time is not as imagined so hard to forget, because with the passage of time, sexual climax and passion time will occupy your memory, the first memory will naturally slowly fade away.

Many women in the memory, first sexual intercourse pain, not very comfortable, and the performance of the two very awkward. But once you experience the first time, the rest of the time you are the only thing to do is to fully enjoy the passion sex to bring you unlimited pleasure. The first time for women is very important, no matter from the physical point of view or from the angle of psychology is so. Therefore, in the first time, we need to do some preparation work.

Make preparation

The first thing to do, is also the most important thing, you really want to be your first time for him? Most women want their first time to their favorite, the most trusted man, but also the most caring man. There are many women rushing to own for the first time, the reason was because of the friends around they began their sex, or because her boyfriend wants to have sex with her. The above two kinds of reason cannot make you start the real reason for the first time, the real decision right in their own hands. Before the start of action to clear thinking, don't regret. In action, the injured person must be very painful. You should ask yourself: he is my trust? We are not on the spur of the moment, we are going to a long time together? I am voluntary, or under his pressure? I did it for myself, or because of other people......

Everyone for their first is full of expectation and desire, but if you think you are not prepared, then wait! If he really loves you, cares for you, he will understand you, respect your decision, will not give you pressure.

If you think you're really ready to start, first sexual intercourse and exciting, the following tips, I hope to help you.

Tips

The first sex location is very important. Therefore, choose a suitable location is the first thing to do, this place would be safe and comfortable, which is beneficial to relieve the tension of two for the first time. The girl's bedroom is a good place.

The first time sex is also very important. Choose a family, roommates and friends will not disturb your time.

- at the start of a love before, learn some knowledge about sex is also very important. Learn some knowledge and skills of foreplay, don't worry come straight to the theme to Huanglong Cave. Learn some physiological knowledge, learn to understand each other's body changes. In the light of the environment, in the face of time not too confound each other naked, because of the closeness of sex to be far more than the face of each other naked.

And learn to communicate in sex. Communication is very important, especially when you are first sex. Through the exchange, understand each other's feelings, and your feelings tell each other in a timely manner.

And most of the women in the first time, and a few times before sex will feel pain. The reason is very simple, no habit of his body being inserted. At the beginning, can learn first hand. With their own hands, or to each other. With the hand will slowly open the vagina, relax. I believe this can to some extent alleviate the pain.

In the sex not to dare to say, whether it is at the beginning, or is about to begin, even in. At first you may have some discomfort, perhaps legs cold, or cramps, or other what unexpected situations. If you feel bad, should decisively to stop. At the same time get each other's understanding and respect.

- learn to use lubricant. Although the lubricant can not guarantee that there is no pain, but can be reduced in certain degree. General lubricants are available at Adult supplies store.

- learn to use some suitable for their own sexual positions. Indeed many of the position for the initial sex, this depends on personal preferences. If you want to be in the initiative, you can use the men and women of type. If women are more passive, traditional missionary and sleeping beauty is a good choice.

And learn to help men. For men, the first sex ejaculation will come soon. This is the great majority of men usually show. This time the man need your help and understanding. You don't feel strange and bewildered, not even look down and laugh at each other. Instead, you can encourage him, help him again.

And learn to protect themselves, this one to the end, is also the most important. Protect yourself: including contraception and STD prevention. A good man should have a set of "". Men must use condoms. Of course, women can also take some protective measures, such as the use of female condoms, eat contraceptives and so on.

Have the first time everyone, first represents the beginning. A good start is half of success. I believe in the female friends to complete their wonderful first, it also is behind the beautiful sex.

The activities of the skills it is very difficult for us to get through the teachers and parents. Originally just a little attention, can be very good for a more harmonious relationship.